Earth Hour Malaysia Saturday 28/03/2009 8.30pm

http://www.earthhour.org.my

Hi hi, boys and gals, here's a reminder to all, Yes, you can save the earth and have fun and at the same time, be a hero to earth, yup, just by Switching OFF all your Lights and all your electrical appliances for Earth Hour on 28th March 8.30pm-9.30pm (Malaysia Time), YES! you need rest so do earth, so take an hour to be a hero to our earth, save earth now (^^,) you can do it, it's just an hour.

Now for the fun part of lights off, There's many many program out there, you will just have to do some searching... (^^,) then there is the Ikea program, check it out www.ikea.com.my or you may also find some of your friends to camp together or have an earth hour party at your own home without the lights for an hour, maybe you guys and gals can play darkness hide and seek, heheeh (^^,) but do remember safety first because (-.-) yup, M'sia is not a safe place, so secure and lock your doors and have fun and be a hero to earth (^^,) ...

www.ikea.com.my

Nick Vujicic

Nick Vujicic

Now, I have always try to be very positive on things, why? I have learn a lot about myself by my so call "the ups and down of my road" and really, being a negative person for many years have bring me so much pain, and have destroy me so much, and then you may ask, why positive? I guess it is just like the movie "YES MAN" a lot of people first word is no" or let's just say many family have their problems and so kids are being educated to be or feel like the parents, there's the word "like father, like son" and I always think that this is so true, because every single word or act by parent will be copy by the kid, and they would learn, so if the parents are so damn negative and always fight and argue, then probably the kid would grow up to think that, it's OK to be negative and it's OK to fight. You see, kid see kid do, that's it, they see you do, they learn, it's just so simple to them....

It took me years of pain to realize this.... so now I'm into this new part of me, that is the positive part, and man.. I tell you, I have never felt so good... (^^,) tho there will still be lot's of ups and down, but hey, life is just like a roller coaster ride (^^,). .. there's up and there will sure be down.. (^^,) and yes, if you are never gonna give yourself some chance to change, there will never be any change and if you can't help yourself, then nobody can...

OK OK, now back to this topic, Nick Vujicic. I'm very grateful that one of my friend send me this video of Nick Vujicic from youtube.com today 23/03/2009, yup, nothing is too late as long as it works, because like what I have say, "Forget the past if it makes you frown, remember the future coz you make your own future", so don't blame what's already happen in the past coz, there's no turning back, no never (+.+), so look in front.... and here I wanna share this man (^^,) and man, he's the man... you see, not all people can be positive, a lot of say's but not everyone can do it, but he did it and he did it without the thing that you and me have or most of the people have, I guess probably, most perfect man or women would have given up on things before they even try but I see Nick Vujicic on youtube.com today and he did it all... so remember, it's never too late to try or to share.. (^^,)

So, here I wanna share with all, Nick Vujicic, the positive man and the way he touch my life right now and I hope he have touch yours too...

So here's Nick Vujicic HK tour from youtube.com and if you wanna find more of his vid, you can search on youtube.com

If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?

If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?

I have always though that women need to stand up for themselves and take charge, be independent, be beautiful and be stronger that ever because women used to be treated badly and lowly and now, in this world of changing and forwarding "as I called it forwarding myself", women should be more independent that ever to be able to survive and live happily in this world but.... when it comes to relationship, especially when the boyfriend is a cheat, then where do women stand and why are a lot of women so stupid and act blindly and become so ignorant? I'm sorry I call it stupid and ignorant (+.+) but what to do? I don't know what to say? Everyone regardless of men or women deserve to be happy and that's what I believe in, even if there's up and down in life, I still believe that everyone can be happy as long as they find their way to happiness... but, if that boyfriend of yours is a cheat and for many many times during the many many years that you are together with him, then why does she, the gal, still act as if nothing has ever happen all this years?

OK, I will explain... I know this gal, mm, OK, her name is "Y", she can be consider a family, I know her for more that 3years I guess, we stay under one roof because I'm studying and I move in with her and other family, yup into the same house, me and her sometimes talk but not much because she always working, going out and in her room with her boyfriend, his name is "L". The 1st year when I move into this house, her bf was already there, because is his family house, I know "Y" is the gf of "L" but "Y", she's staying with her family at that time. I always though that she and her bf are great couple, probably because she and her bf look happy together.... I heard from another family member that they have been together for a year or two then...

Then comes the thunder truth (*.*) .... One day... in that 1st year of me staying at that house, "Y"'s bf came home, I was in the living room, he then brings in a cute gal, long hair, big eye, and man, she's really cute and young, and they stay in the bedroom until night, I though, mm, probably is a friend... this thing.. have been going on for month, sometimes "Y" comes, sometimes the cute gal come to the house...mm...

So I ask around the family, because there's 5 people in the house, all are "L"'s family and 3 more people who always come on sat and sun, that's "L" sister and her family. .. I guess I don't really like than idea that one man always brings different women into the house, probably if it's friend then maybe I would not mind, but I have that kinda feeling... (@.@) that's something wrong...

SO,, with my nosy nose, I snoop around and ask around and I found out that "L" is a two timer, he's "L" bf of 1 or 2 years back then but he always try to look for other entertainment, if you know what I mean... (=.=) ... back then I'm not sure what to do and I don't really know "Y", you see, when she come to this home, she is either in her room, or not in the house, so I was no where near her and she don't talk to me... mm (-.-) maybe she is that kinda person who always keep to herself.. so we never talk about anything, but I'm really pissed off by "L" behavior and I don't like "L" not the way he cheated "Y" ... mm, I have always though, how could "Y" have not know?? it is so obvious... because that cute gal always call even when "L" is with "Y" and when that gal call, "L" would act suspicious. and talk with a different tone.... I though, "Y" must have know, how could she have not know, ... the sign is all there ..... I hear that "L" two time "Y" 2years and the cute gal 1 year before he broke up with the cute gal... mm, when I know that, I though, phew, finally it's over...

Then come my second year at that house, "Y" move into the house to stay with "L", still she always out working or out with other friends, she look happy and when ever she is home, she's in her room.. so I guess OK, everything is going on normally... Then the sign comes back... "L" been acting suspiciously with lot's of call and sms and "L" would talk on the phone with a different tone, that kinda tone where men would talk softly to other women tone, then "L" would go out late at night... OK.. am I being nosy or what, but what the HELL is "Y" thinking?... so comes one day, I was out having lunch with "L" mother because she invited me outside to eat with her sisters.. we were all talking and then "L" comes to the topic, the mom say's there's another women in "L" life and he keep her in his mom house... WHAT... what's in this kinda family's mind?? (+.+) That day I found out that actually the parent, the sister, the brother, all the family knew that "L" is a womanizer. "L" keep "Y" at this house and another women in his mom house... (-.-) Again, in my mind... WHAT THE HELL is "Y" thinking... then "L" mom say's actually "Y" knew "L" have another women and she request that "L" take care of the problem... what?? "the problem" .... what's wrong with this family anyway....
SO, she knew all along that her bf is a womanizer and yet she plan to marry him.... and now, this year, for the third time he is showing the sign" again, the calling and the soft tone, the going out at night and yet "Y" is acting as if nothing... man.......... so..

If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?
I mean;
(when I moved into this house, I have consider all the family there, I mean to me, they are like my new family now, so I guess, I really don't know what to do or you can say, I hate that the fact that one of the family member are a cheat.... )

I'm not really sure what I should do.... the victim don't say a word and act as if nothing have ever happen, but me, being a busy body, was thinking what I should do... (=.=) maybe I'm being nosy... that's all I can say... but then again, how was she able to be happy when her life is being surrounded by lies?? maybe if that guy cheated once, I mean probably she can forgive him for the 1st time if he know that he is wrong and he would change, but if it happen again, and again and again, why is she still with him? is that love? or stupidity? God's know, but I sure don't understand... (=.=)

It's the new century or era, many women are standing up and become independent, and I think women or men, regardless of who or what, everyone deserve happiness, so my advice to all men and women regardless of race, color or what ever, please find your happiness true real love and truth, not some cheat and lies... I do not think in the end there will be happy ending base on lies.... and yes I think womanizer can be change, maybe if only that womanizer found their true love, or go into therapy or something, but don't you think if he's with you and he still keep on being a womanizer and never ever change then maybe he's not really in love with you... so maybe you should go out there and find your real love?

So.... What about you, what you think? and when there's the sign" of cheat, what would you really do? ...........

Beyonce - If I Were A Boy - MTV & Lyrics

If I Were A Boy

If I were a boy even just for a day
I'd roll out of bed in the morning
And throw on what I wanted
And go drink beer with the guys

And chase after girls
I'd kick it with who I wanted
And I'd never get confronted for it
'Cause they stick up for me

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

If I were a boy
I would turn off my phone
Tell everyone it's broken
So they'd think that I was sleeping alone

I'd put myself first
And make the rules as I go
Cause I know that she'd be faithful
Waiting for me to come home, to come home

If I were a boy
I think I could understand
How it feels to love a girl
I swear I'd be a better man

I'd listen to her
Cause I know how it hurts
When you lose the one you wanted
'Cause he's taking you for granted
And everything you had got destroyed

It's a little too late for you to come back
Say it's just a mistake
Think I'd forgive you like that
If you thought I would wait for you
You thought wrong

But you're just a boy
You don't understand
And you don't understand, oh
How it feels to love a girl
Someday you wish you were a better man

You don't listen to her
You don't care how it hurts
Until you lose the one you wanted
Cause you're taking her for granted
And everything you had got destroyed
But you're just a boy

Video from youtube.com

Here in My Home by Malaysian Artistes For Unity

Today I'm going to introduce a MTV by some famous Malaysian Artistes, it's nothing fancy, but I think it's a great song to share with all, coz I think all people should unite as one, regardless of color, race or religion, let's all create love and not hate, let's all create a clean and green world together, let's all love each other, let's us all unite as one (^^,) and that's my wish for this world (^^,)

Here in My Home by Malaysian Artistes For Unity

41 Posts, last published on Nov 20, 2008

wow, I have 41 Posts only, and my last published blog is on Nov 20, 2008 (*.*), mm mm, it's been so long since I blog (^^,) I almost forgot how happy it was when I last blog (^^,) phew... really been bz (^^,) bz bz bz with all the internship things, then my family stuff, then I been sick and all (+.+) ... so tired (*.*) ... but anyway (^^,) I will try to start blogging again (^^,) mm mm, maybe after April my birthday, then I will have more time to blog (^^,) so for now let's all Kambateh (^^,)