If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?
I have always though that women need to stand up for themselves and take charge, be independent, be beautiful and be stronger that ever because women used to be treated badly and lowly and now, in this world of changing and forwarding "as I called it forwarding myself", women should be more independent that ever to be able to survive and live happily in this world but.... when it comes to relationship, especially when the boyfriend is a cheat, then where do women stand and why are a lot of women so stupid and act blindly and become so ignorant? I'm sorry I call it stupid and ignorant (+.+) but what to do? I don't know what to say? Everyone regardless of men or women deserve to be happy and that's what I believe in, even if there's up and down in life, I still believe that everyone can be happy as long as they find their way to happiness... but, if that boyfriend of yours is a cheat and for many many times during the many many years that you are together with him, then why does she, the gal, still act as if nothing has ever happen all this years?
OK, I will explain... I know this gal, mm, OK, her name is "Y", she can be consider a family, I know her for more that 3years I guess, we stay under one roof because I'm studying and I move in with her and other family, yup into the same house, me and her sometimes talk but not much because she always working, going out and in her room with her boyfriend, his name is "L". The 1st year when I move into this house, her bf was already there, because is his family house, I know "Y" is the gf of "L" but "Y", she's staying with her family at that time. I always though that she and her bf are great couple, probably because she and her bf look happy together.... I heard from another family member that they have been together for a year or two then...
Then comes the thunder truth (*.*) .... One day... in that 1st year of me staying at that house, "Y"'s bf came home, I was in the living room, he then brings in a cute gal, long hair, big eye, and man, she's really cute and young, and they stay in the bedroom until night, I though, mm, probably is a friend... this thing.. have been going on for month, sometimes "Y" comes, sometimes the cute gal come to the house...mm...
So I ask around the family, because there's 5 people in the house, all are "L"'s family and 3 more people who always come on sat and sun, that's "L" sister and her family. .. I guess I don't really like than idea that one man always brings different women into the house, probably if it's friend then maybe I would not mind, but I have that kinda feeling... (@.@) that's something wrong...
SO,, with my nosy nose, I snoop around and ask around and I found out that "L" is a two timer, he's "L" bf of 1 or 2 years back then but he always try to look for other entertainment, if you know what I mean... (=.=) ... back then I'm not sure what to do and I don't really know "Y", you see, when she come to this home, she is either in her room, or not in the house, so I was no where near her and she don't talk to me... mm (-.-) maybe she is that kinda person who always keep to herself.. so we never talk about anything, but I'm really pissed off by "L" behavior and I don't like "L" not the way he cheated "Y" ... mm, I have always though, how could "Y" have not know?? it is so obvious... because that cute gal always call even when "L" is with "Y" and when that gal call, "L" would act suspicious. and talk with a different tone.... I though, "Y" must have know, how could she have not know, ... the sign is all there ..... I hear that "L" two time "Y" 2years and the cute gal 1 year before he broke up with the cute gal... mm, when I know that, I though, phew, finally it's over...
Then come my second year at that house, "Y" move into the house to stay with "L", still she always out working or out with other friends, she look happy and when ever she is home, she's in her room.. so I guess OK, everything is going on normally... Then the sign comes back... "L" been acting suspiciously with lot's of call and sms and "L" would talk on the phone with a different tone, that kinda tone where men would talk softly to other women tone, then "L" would go out late at night... OK.. am I being nosy or what, but what the HELL is "Y" thinking?... so comes one day, I was out having lunch with "L" mother because she invited me outside to eat with her sisters.. we were all talking and then "L" comes to the topic, the mom say's there's another women in "L" life and he keep her in his mom house... WHAT... what's in this kinda family's mind?? (+.+) That day I found out that actually the parent, the sister, the brother, all the family knew that "L" is a womanizer. "L" keep "Y" at this house and another women in his mom house... (-.-) Again, in my mind... WHAT THE HELL is "Y" thinking... then "L" mom say's actually "Y" knew "L" have another women and she request that "L" take care of the problem... what?? "the problem" .... what's wrong with this family anyway....
SO, she knew all along that her bf is a womanizer and yet she plan to marry him.... and now, this year, for the third time he is showing the sign" again, the calling and the soft tone, the going out at night and yet "Y" is acting as if nothing... man.......... so..
If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?
I mean;
(when I moved into this house, I have consider all the family there, I mean to me, they are like my new family now, so I guess, I really don't know what to do or you can say, I hate that the fact that one of the family member are a cheat.... )
I'm not really sure what I should do.... the victim don't say a word and act as if nothing have ever happen, but me, being a busy body, was thinking what I should do... (=.=) maybe I'm being nosy... that's all I can say... but then again, how was she able to be happy when her life is being surrounded by lies?? maybe if that guy cheated once, I mean probably she can forgive him for the 1st time if he know that he is wrong and he would change, but if it happen again, and again and again, why is she still with him? is that love? or stupidity? God's know, but I sure don't understand... (=.=)
It's the new century or era, many women are standing up and become independent, and I think women or men, regardless of who or what, everyone deserve happiness, so my advice to all men and women regardless of race, color or what ever, please find your happiness true real love and truth, not some cheat and lies... I do not think in the end there will be happy ending base on lies.... and yes I think womanizer can be change, maybe if only that womanizer found their true love, or go into therapy or something, but don't you think if he's with you and he still keep on being a womanizer and never ever change then maybe he's not really in love with you... so maybe you should go out there and find your real love?
So.... What about you, what you think? and when there's the sign" of cheat, what would you really do? ...........
I have always though that women need to stand up for themselves and take charge, be independent, be beautiful and be stronger that ever because women used to be treated badly and lowly and now, in this world of changing and forwarding "as I called it forwarding myself", women should be more independent that ever to be able to survive and live happily in this world but.... when it comes to relationship, especially when the boyfriend is a cheat, then where do women stand and why are a lot of women so stupid and act blindly and become so ignorant? I'm sorry I call it stupid and ignorant (+.+) but what to do? I don't know what to say? Everyone regardless of men or women deserve to be happy and that's what I believe in, even if there's up and down in life, I still believe that everyone can be happy as long as they find their way to happiness... but, if that boyfriend of yours is a cheat and for many many times during the many many years that you are together with him, then why does she, the gal, still act as if nothing has ever happen all this years?
OK, I will explain... I know this gal, mm, OK, her name is "Y", she can be consider a family, I know her for more that 3years I guess, we stay under one roof because I'm studying and I move in with her and other family, yup into the same house, me and her sometimes talk but not much because she always working, going out and in her room with her boyfriend, his name is "L". The 1st year when I move into this house, her bf was already there, because is his family house, I know "Y" is the gf of "L" but "Y", she's staying with her family at that time. I always though that she and her bf are great couple, probably because she and her bf look happy together.... I heard from another family member that they have been together for a year or two then...
Then comes the thunder truth (*.*) .... One day... in that 1st year of me staying at that house, "Y"'s bf came home, I was in the living room, he then brings in a cute gal, long hair, big eye, and man, she's really cute and young, and they stay in the bedroom until night, I though, mm, probably is a friend... this thing.. have been going on for month, sometimes "Y" comes, sometimes the cute gal come to the house...mm...
So I ask around the family, because there's 5 people in the house, all are "L"'s family and 3 more people who always come on sat and sun, that's "L" sister and her family. .. I guess I don't really like than idea that one man always brings different women into the house, probably if it's friend then maybe I would not mind, but I have that kinda feeling... (@.@) that's something wrong...
SO,, with my nosy nose, I snoop around and ask around and I found out that "L" is a two timer, he's "L" bf of 1 or 2 years back then but he always try to look for other entertainment, if you know what I mean... (=.=) ... back then I'm not sure what to do and I don't really know "Y", you see, when she come to this home, she is either in her room, or not in the house, so I was no where near her and she don't talk to me... mm (-.-) maybe she is that kinda person who always keep to herself.. so we never talk about anything, but I'm really pissed off by "L" behavior and I don't like "L" not the way he cheated "Y" ... mm, I have always though, how could "Y" have not know?? it is so obvious... because that cute gal always call even when "L" is with "Y" and when that gal call, "L" would act suspicious. and talk with a different tone.... I though, "Y" must have know, how could she have not know, ... the sign is all there ..... I hear that "L" two time "Y" 2years and the cute gal 1 year before he broke up with the cute gal... mm, when I know that, I though, phew, finally it's over...
Then come my second year at that house, "Y" move into the house to stay with "L", still she always out working or out with other friends, she look happy and when ever she is home, she's in her room.. so I guess OK, everything is going on normally... Then the sign comes back... "L" been acting suspiciously with lot's of call and sms and "L" would talk on the phone with a different tone, that kinda tone where men would talk softly to other women tone, then "L" would go out late at night... OK.. am I being nosy or what, but what the HELL is "Y" thinking?... so comes one day, I was out having lunch with "L" mother because she invited me outside to eat with her sisters.. we were all talking and then "L" comes to the topic, the mom say's there's another women in "L" life and he keep her in his mom house... WHAT... what's in this kinda family's mind?? (+.+) That day I found out that actually the parent, the sister, the brother, all the family knew that "L" is a womanizer. "L" keep "Y" at this house and another women in his mom house... (-.-) Again, in my mind... WHAT THE HELL is "Y" thinking... then "L" mom say's actually "Y" knew "L" have another women and she request that "L" take care of the problem... what?? "the problem" .... what's wrong with this family anyway....
SO, she knew all along that her bf is a womanizer and yet she plan to marry him.... and now, this year, for the third time he is showing the sign" again, the calling and the soft tone, the going out at night and yet "Y" is acting as if nothing... man.......... so..
If someone in the family is a cheat (+.+) what would u do?
I mean;
(when I moved into this house, I have consider all the family there, I mean to me, they are like my new family now, so I guess, I really don't know what to do or you can say, I hate that the fact that one of the family member are a cheat.... )
I'm not really sure what I should do.... the victim don't say a word and act as if nothing have ever happen, but me, being a busy body, was thinking what I should do... (=.=) maybe I'm being nosy... that's all I can say... but then again, how was she able to be happy when her life is being surrounded by lies?? maybe if that guy cheated once, I mean probably she can forgive him for the 1st time if he know that he is wrong and he would change, but if it happen again, and again and again, why is she still with him? is that love? or stupidity? God's know, but I sure don't understand... (=.=)
It's the new century or era, many women are standing up and become independent, and I think women or men, regardless of who or what, everyone deserve happiness, so my advice to all men and women regardless of race, color or what ever, please find your happiness true real love and truth, not some cheat and lies... I do not think in the end there will be happy ending base on lies.... and yes I think womanizer can be change, maybe if only that womanizer found their true love, or go into therapy or something, but don't you think if he's with you and he still keep on being a womanizer and never ever change then maybe he's not really in love with you... so maybe you should go out there and find your real love?
So.... What about you, what you think? and when there's the sign" of cheat, what would you really do? ...........
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